Saturday, 5 January 2008
What SHOULD I do?
I'm pregnent for about 5months and no one knows about it... Mom, sis and aunts were wondering why my tummy so big... But all i can say is just only i'm getting fatter and the fat only grow at my tummy... No one knows the truth... As usual we only contact by text messaging... As we were talking about abortion... We started to argue... I really dont know what should I do... Should I go for abortion???? My head keep on thinking all sorts of things... What am I doing? Did I ever did something right? Will he keep on his promises? Does he really remember what he promised? If he does remember why all these keep on happened over and over again?
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9 comments:
Peggy,
Life must be tough right now for you with secrecy and all. But just a word of caution. At 5 month, you cannot do an abortion. That route is a bit late. The best you can do now is to raise the baby as best as you can and have a heart to heart talk with your family. At this point in time its important to have the support of people closest to you.
Good Luck
When I said you can't do an abortion, I meant that no doctor will do it for you since it will threaten your life.
Again, good luck.
Peggy, u hv to be strong. Chee Hoe was right. We can't undo what already been done but you can face the future and turn the situation around for better.
Peggy, go to Seri Puteri and get help from there. here the add to taman seri puteri - http://www.dromoz.com/search/?p=Taman+Meru
i think u better let your parent or your sister know about your case.
hi peggy! since i'm still fresh from u! see ur new post! really make me surprise oh since u a only a student!
by the way, i suggest u should let ur family know on it! abortion is dangerous! think b4 u do any action ok!
nice to hear from u my friend ! :p
your parents gave birth to u. they know what your situation is like. tell them. anger would definitely arise, but they will think for u too.
trust in your loved ones. your parents love u, if they don't, u won't be here today.
hi Peggy,
What the rest said above were true and correct.
You need to let your family know about it, especially if you are still single or if underage.
Abortion would be a very, very dangerous thing to consider now.
At five months, the fetus would be formed and placenta would be well attached.
To remove them would be very difficult and dangerous thing to do.
There are many complications of abortion like infection, uterus rupture or adhesion, future infertility.
Most of the clinics which perform abortion do not have a proper (clean and sterile) setting to do so.
And this will further expose the patients to the risks mentioned above.
Peggy, abortion is actually illegal in our country.
I believe family support is the most important thing right now.
They may express anger or feel sad, but eventually they will support you.
Family will never abandon you when you are in distress.
I’m not sure about your relationship with your boyfriend, but you should discuss with him the possible solution and abortion should never be in the list.
Peggy, it may be difficult to have a baby at this young age and much difficult to raise the child.
But, with your family support, I believe everything can be dealt with.
So, I sincerely hope that you would reconsider the option of abortion.
Instead, open up to your family and gain their support.
Peggy, if you still have doubt, please feels free to ask me. Just drop me a message at my blog, k?
Wish you all the best and god bless.
life's precious.
Don't take the risk, tat dosent worth it. Do talk to your family, I blif family will never ever leave you to tis all alone.
Trust me, my sis was juz like u, and how she's living happily with both of my twin nephews =)
Take care
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